The Humility to Lead
While being “small in one's own eyes” actually conforms to the contemporary and Christian-derived definition of humility, in the (Jewish) practice of Mussar, proper humility involves acknowledging not just your weaknesses but also your strengths, and then not taking pride in those strengths.
That’s what the search engine says and frankly I would agree. “Small in one’s own eyes” sound familiar? I have come to reject that as a false sense of humility. It reminds me of the old punch line when the synagogue big shot prostates himself on the sanctuary floor during the high holidays and the Rabbi turns to the Cantor and says, “Look who thinks he’s nothing”.
So, why am I telling you this? Perhaps there’s a voice inside of you that calls you to become something more, something different than you thought you would be. But who are you to dream such dreams? To believe that you have a calling. That you could lead. But instead we surrender to the Pharaoh that also lives in our hearts. “Who am I to think that I could be a Rabbi,, who am I to stand and sing in full throat on the holiest of days as a Cantor, a Rabbinic Chaplain or , like me, a Mashpia. A Spiritual counsellor and companion.
But think of the possibilities. The moments where you can make. a difference in the lives of others. Being there for people when they are passing through the major events of this life. At ALEPH Canada we can help you take that leap so that you can learn and cultivate your wisdom. To lead. Not for status but to become useful, to live your truth and yes, inspire others. Contact us at alephcanada.ca or check out our pathways at aleph.org
